When love makes you uglier

A disturbing percentage of people –percentage mostly made up by heterosexuals with zero or very little knowledge of gay culture- believes that lesbians –that all lesbians- possess three characteristics that allow the rest of humanity to point them out in a crowd. The three characteristics are: Short hair (which is also grey if the lesbian […]

Closet limbo

Years ago, shortly after coming out, I was dating a girl who was a little older than me (fine, maybe she was more than just a little older than me, but still not as nearly as old as SB makes it sound whenever she comes up in conversation). Anyway, we were talking about me coming out to […]